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Comment on by Daniela

Daniela — Sat, 27 Apr 2013 08:22:22 +0000

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Comment on by deb reilly

deb reilly — Mon, 22 Apr 2013 03:02:26 +0000

Thanks for the comment, Chris. Those assaults brought me back to childhood in an instant. It took work not to stay there!

Comment on by Chris

Chris — Sun, 21 Apr 2013 18:34:09 +0000

Sounds like a whole week of self righteousness, people love to be right. But you went left and didn’t react, good work. The physical pain is all that energy they threw at you, but by not reacting, you got to keep it. Instead of expressing negativity, which is a way of throwing all that energy away, you get to use it like money. All these people sound like they are suffering, and your compassion is very wise. But remember the Mayan saying “In la’ kech” “I am another yourself.” You got some great photographs and gifts for your personal evolution. Love you, Chris

Comment on by Daniela

Daniela — Sun, 21 Apr 2013 00:46:26 +0000

Compassion has nothing to do with being right or wrong, that alone is the clearest and truest window in all that matters … it is also where your own strength comes from. Well Done!

Daniela

Comment on by Anette

Anette — Fri, 19 Apr 2013 11:50:28 +0000

The manner in which you dealt with each situation is commendable, Deb, and probably much healthier than a negative response to those ignorant people. You are a much stronger, wiser person than most of us!

It is so good to read your post insightful post–it has been too long, my friend.

Sent from my iPad

Comment on by deb reilly

deb reilly — Fri, 19 Apr 2013 03:55:24 +0000

Mike, I agree that you are choosing a win for both. And even if it would be nice if “the other guy” knew your motivation, it’s really okay if they don’t, isn’t it!

Comment on by Michael Ray King

Michael Ray King — Fri, 19 Apr 2013 03:02:04 +0000

Awesome! I’m learning to no longer defend myself as well. Tough row to hoe but I e made great strides. Now that I’m not baited into the negativity, accusations of “avoiding issues” come at me. What I’m choosing is a win for both sides – a de-escalation and an opportunity for both to save face. Your post here is soooooo timely. I’m now trying to master that internal body reaction that stresses me. I agree, the body is not as quick to adapt…

Comment on by KM Huber

KM Huber — Fri, 19 Apr 2013 02:09:32 +0000

As I type this response, so go the thoughts. Thanks for thinking of me. I’ll keep sending.

Comment on by deb reilly

deb reilly — Fri, 19 Apr 2013 02:05:36 +0000

Thanks for the comment, Karen! I had an experience today that really got my attention. I met a young woman who’s life is so difficult, (through no fault of her own) yet she has patience, gratitude and hope. She didn’t blame anyone for her situation. And she has no idea what a rock star she is. Send her good thoughts, okay?

Comment on by KM Huber

KM Huber — Fri, 19 Apr 2013 01:26:23 +0000

Thanks for telling us so we can see ourselves. I hear you about the body lagging a bit….
Karen